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Expectations

I’ve been thinking about this for sometime now.

Reflecting back on the things that happened to me

Re-evaluating all the measures I could have done

But I ended up with the same conclusion each time

“My expectations on others got me hurt”

I decided to have no expectations on people for a change

And surprisingly for a week now

I’m enjoying my peace of mind

My deduction

Have no expectations when it comes to dealing with people

For example,if you have someone who’s mean to you and you keep asking them to stop being mean

They won’t, they will disappoint you every time

But once you stop minding how they act and accept them for who they really are

They gradually change or it’s like they realize your attention is somewhere else and now they start to treat you better

I hope this makes sense to you as it does to me 🤣

Have a lovely week ahead

PS: Stay safe, sanitize, wash your hands, wear your mask, and observe the social distance.